HOW TO BE SUBMISSIVE WITHOUT GIVING UP ALL CONTROL

HOW TO BE SUBMISSIVE WITHOUT GIVING UP ALL CONTROL

Most of the BDSM activity depend upon Submissive and dominant roles because they are interact to each other to play some erotic play, remember every person that just because you are the submissive or bottom doesn’t mean you lack control, you can hold control in every phases in BDSM play. You should discuss with your partner what will happen before the play if you are planning a serious BDSM scene into your regular sexual routine. BDSM activity not so longer because today we have many roles of any play which can provide multiple acts at a time.

Every scene which is created in your playtime that comes after great knowledge about BDSM activity. It may be scheduled and activities planned beforehand because you can decide everything with the partner most of the peoples doing that but we are discussing whose don't do that, or it may be more loosely planned and spontaneous, taking shaping as you go with the partner. Sometimes people refer to the scene, meaning the BDSM community for more enjoyment and pleasure.

While doing BDSM activity, a safe word can also help to ease your reluctance if you are not sure about this whole BDSM thing with the partner to communicate to each other. A safe word is a word you can say when things are too intense for you to handle by using some extra ordinary works with the any other Bondage play. Your safe word should be easy to remember and say even when you are under any activity for doing BDSM activity. Wikipedia has some great info on safe words here, which play you to make a best sexual activity.

A popular method is the “Light'' method in which you communicate your partner, saying:

Yellow when you want him to slow down

Green when you want him to continue

Red when you want him to stop

UNSAFE PLAY PARTNERS AND RED FLAGS

UNSAFE PLAY PARTNERS AND RED FLAGS

BDSM activities so much longer not only way to be submissive is to give complete control. A lack of safe words, discussion of what’s going to happen with the partner in SM activity and your feelings or wanting to jump into a BDSM-like scenario too early in your relationship can be a red flag that this person is a potential abuser, so always beware of this kind of person at every time.

A potential abuser or unsafe partner may not let you state your limits or needs, perhaps arguing that you’re not submitting enough when you do so. But that’s not true. Ignoring your safe word is another reason of stopping any BDSM activity, according to time you may increase your sexual sensation with the partner for any sexual activity such as bondage or any SM activity, today we have many ways to find own sexual activities for better enjoyment, BDSM not for bondage it has many phases for achieving any kind of submissive type sexual intercourse.

There are some other issues as well:

Offend or harass you outside a scene

Mood swings

Separate from friends and family

Forbidding contact with others in the scene

Refusal to believe a mistake or apologize for a mistake

Ignoring requests to use condoms or engage in safe sex

Push your limits

Forces you to do things that may harm you such as you are not allowed to use the bathroom

First bad relationship

To be critical and less mood full

Trying to force you to submit

TURNING THE TABLES

TURNING THE TABLES

It is common to seen in any BDSM activity, Dominant males and submissive females, but that’s not the only way how to be submissive because women's always never submissive, sometimes male partner also become submissive. The powerful woman or you can take turns with dominance and submission to handover in front of any person. A person who enjoys both roles is known as a switch, and a switch gets to experience both sides of the coin so it is best for any couple to play a role of submissive and dominant to inter change according to own interest.